Did you know the human body is designed and equipped with two programs? One for sex and one for lovemaking. One program is designed to make sure the species survives. The other one is there to help us create the union we dream of.

Naturopathic and Humanistic Psychotherapist Carolin Hauser teaches how we get lured and tricked by our genes into reproducing by orgasmic sex feeling as good as it does. And because orgasms feel so good and give us the illusion of connection, partially because that’s all we know, we believe that exciting sex with lots of orgasms equates to a healthy sex and love life.

In short, if you want to truly create the union of your heart’s desire, you need to detox your brain from the way you have sex or not have sex any more and teach your brain a completely new way of relating. This new way is called Bonding-Based Lovemaking.

Find out more on the podcast and on her website carolinhauser.com